Top 20 Things learned in my 30's

By your 30's, your expected to have your life in order. You're at a point in your life that you become more wiser. Getting older is a process of a lot of trial and error. My 30's are definitely a milestone for me. I learned so much about life as well as myself. It was a period of growth.

Here are 20 Things that I've learned in my 30's.

1. Always be true to yourself

2. What others think is irrelevant. We spend our adolescent years worried about what others thought. Being in a state of fear, is not living.

3. It' s okay to be selfish when if comes to your happiness.

4. Sometimes, friendships outgrow. Its quality over quantity. In our younger years, it was always about how many friends we had. As you get older and mature, you begin to search for deeper friendships. If your lucky, a good friend will stick with you thru your 30's on up. Real friends adds value to your life.

5. I can't party like I use to. There was a point in my life when I could Stay up all night to party. Ummmmmmmmm....those days are long gone. 😂 If I try it now, it takes days to recover. Heck, now i find excuses to sometimes not go out.

6. You cant please everyone. Some people are just negative individuals. No matter how hard you try, there will always be that one person that you just cant seem to do anything to their liking.

7. Give yourself some slack at times. NO ONE is perfect, and mistakes will be made.

8. You only have one life. Start living for yourself. Make the best of it.

9. Never settle. ALWAYS go for what you want

10. When to let go

11. Health is a priority. Eat healthy and exercise regularly

12. Saving money is a necessity-always have a little cushion for hard times.

13. Love is more important than material things. I want nothing but your time, attention, and loyalty. Spend as much needed time with family and friends.

14. You can't have it all. It's okay to go without somethings

15. It's okay to take risks. Don't be afraid to make a change.Whether small or big. Go for that job. Make that big move.

16. Learn how to say NO

17. Sleep is more important than anything

18. Age is just a number. You are as young as you feel. 30's are the new 20's!!!

19. Student loans are REAL!

20. Getting older is a privilege . Celebrate it, never fear it

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